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Act Like a Leper This Thanksgiving

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Thank You. Two simple words — both written and spoken — hover as an endangered species in our ‘hurry up and get it done’ culture. But we see in the Book of Luke that Thank You is important to God.

What does it say?

Jesus Heals Ten Men With Leprosy, Luke 17:11-19:

Now on his way to Jerusalem, Jesus traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee. As he was going into a village, ten men who had leprosy met him. They stood at a distance and called out in a loud voice, “Jesus, Master, have pity on us! “When he saw them, he said, “Go, show yourselves to the priests.” And as they went, they were cleansed.

One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice. He threw himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him—and he was a Samaritan.

Jesus asked, “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? Has no one returned to give praise to God except this foreigner?” Then he said to him, “Rise and go; your faith has made you well.”

What do we learn?

The math is not complicated. Ten were healed; one returned.

To RETURN and say Thank You:

Takes Time – he came back

Involves gratitude – praising God

Incorporates humility – threw himself at Jesus’ feet

What can we do to Act Like a Leper This Thanksgiving?

Perhaps, we must first Climb over the objections:

  • I don’t have time. (True)

  • No one reads what I write. (False)

  • They already know I am grateful. (Are you sure?)

  • I waited too long, now I am embarrassed to RETURN. (Go ahead anyway.)

  • I don’t know what to say. (Less is more; less is enough.)

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Then, having climbed over the objections, we engage with the reality that grateful people are happy people. This season of Thanksgiving, you and I own the opportunity, like the leper, to RETURN to a person, a place, a moment, or a memory to express gratitude, written or spoken. Here are a myriad of ideas. Does one—just one—nudge you to RETURN?

Buy postcards and jot a note to say Thank You:

To an acquaintance who hosted an event you attended this past year

To the cousin who pulled off the annual reunion

To your child’s teacher who shows up day after day in the classroom

To the postal employee who brings you your mail

To your husband’s executive assistant

To the neighbor who pulls in your garbage can when you are out of town

To your pastor’s wife who gets little encouragement

To the group member who faithfully arranges the room for the meeting

To the friend who always has time to listen

Phone and leave a voice message to say Thank You:

To the staff at your doctor’s office

To your spouse who filled the car with gas

To the childcare workers in your church nursery

To your teenager who did the dishes

To the widow who makes an effort to engage in her community

To the business who provided space for your committee to meet

Kneel beside your bed and say Thank You:

Here is a suggestion. Before going to bed each night between now and Thanksgiving, Act Like a Leper and kneel beside your bed; say Thank You to Jesus for healing you from the spiritual disease of sinful leprosy. Then, praise God as you fall into a sweet asleep.

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“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights … ”(James 1:17).

1. Why do you think this Story is important to God?

2. How does thanksgiving involve humility?

3. Which one idea does the Holy Spirit prompt you to pursue this Thanksgiving season?

Top Ten Mental Mistakes

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Stretched out on the couch, watching our favorite football team, felt dead right. Buried in the vocabulary of first downs and interceptions, wide receiver and linebacker, flea flicker and audible, delayed blitz and play action, I had no intention of writing a blog post.

But I couldn’t help myself.

While the SEC football drama played out on the screen, the dominant topic played out in my head: mental mistakes. As I listened, the sportscaster persistently pointed out one team’s mental mistakes. And, sure enough, when the whistle blew, mental mistakes robbed said team of victory. (Groan.)

However, mental mistakes are not confined to the gridiron, are they? And you and I need not be university athletes to still suffer the penalty from costly mental errors. Consider the following list of thought patterns that take us places God never intended us to go.

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Top Ten Mental Mistakes in the Life of a Child of God

Mental Mistake #1: Worry

Mental Mistake #2: Fear

Mental Mistake #3: Viewing the future without factoring in the Presence of God

Mental Mistake #4: Naïve attitude regarding our spiritual battle

Mental Mistake #5: Obsessive thinking, Overthinking, and Negative thinking

Mental Mistake # 6: Introspection

Mental Mistake #7: Not believing the best of another

Mental Mistake #8: Permitting a problem to become an idol

Mental Mistake #9: Self-flagellation

Mental Mistake #10: Neglecting to consult the Lord when making a decision

Ok, one more …

Mental Mistake #11: Judging the actions of someone without obtaining the facts

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Mental Mistakes are costly, and rob us of God’s intended walk of victory. What mental mistake can you add to the list I created?

For further reflection, ask yourself the following:

What is the most common mental mistake I am prone to make?

What would be God’s plan from His Word to correct this thinking pattern?

But we have the mind of Christ(1 Corinthians 2:16b).

A Romance Backstory Finally Told

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Devotedly, The Personal Letters and Love Story of Jim and Elisabeth Elliot brings to life the previously untold story of romance between Elisabeth Howard and Jim Elliot.

Years ago, Elisabeth Elliot bequeathed to her daughter Valerie a special collection of letters written to her (Elisabeth Howard) from Jim Elliot between 1948 and 1953. But with eight children and a household of activity, this pastor’s wife stored them in her attic. Then one day, when the whirlwind of life slowed, the treasure trove with its contents emerged. Soon, this extraordinary book, Devotedly, The Personal Letters and Love Story of Jim and Elisabeth Elliot by Valerie Elliot Shepard came into being.

Drawing from journals, diaries, and these letters, the only daughter of this legendary missionary couple tells the backstory of their romance:

~They only saw each other five times in five years.

~Their individual relationships with God, and His supreme call on their lives, consistently took precedence over their relationship with each other.

~His divine purpose ruled their wills, and a future together was not a foregone conclusion.

~At a tender moment in their relationship, Elisabeth was diagnosed with tuberculosis.

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What other discoveries await the reader inside these covers? For starters, just imagine, he called her Betts; she called him Jim, my darling. But these terms of endearment waited years for expression.

Upon reading the pages, I collected a plethora of quotes in hopes of providing you with insight into the magnificence of this relationship, and how it developed. (Elizabeth Howard, EH; Jim Elliot, JE) Believe me, this brief collection serves only as a preview!

[Note: These quotes are taken directly from the new book, Devotedly, The Personal Letters and Love Story of Jim and Elisabeth Elliot, B&H Publishing Group]

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Wept myself to sleep last night after seeing Betty off at the depot. JE

I’d rather walk with God in the darkness than go alone in the light. EH

I stand now in darkness-the only glimmer of vision into the future is the faint apprehension of a road I do not care to tread. EH

Lord, rule my will and affections. EH

All that I ought to be, Christ is. And Christ liveth in me. Enough? It is enough. EH

It’s a matter of the WILL; you make a CHOICE not to worry or fret. EH

Grace for tomorrow is never given today. Neither is grace given for imaginations. EH

I love him with all my being. EH

To marry you would be an admission to myself that Christ is not sufficient. JE

This morning I feel that nameless depression which comes to me when alone and in new circumstances. EH

Worship is excellent exercise for the soul. Makes a man big inside, makes him feel like he has found what he was built for — though he is conscious that he is inept. JE

September 20 I really knew that I loved her. JE

Jim said, “Do you realize what it may cost?” (speaking of the possibility of his going into work among the Aucas). Yes, I realize what it may cost—death. And it is not as though I have not considered this possibility before. EH

Funny, but I never think of my having the accident and your losing me … JE

Jim, my darling, I pour out my heart in thanksgiving to the Lord for you, every time I go to pray…. EH

Forget not in age what tenderness you knew there, my soul. JE

Because more than anything else I know, Betts dearest, what I want to do is make you happy. JE

I love you madly, and think there just isn’t anyone else to compare. EH

How I praise God for him - no one could ask for more of like than to be loved as I am loved. EH

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Now, with these few excerpts served as an appetizer, treat yourself to a feast of reading from Devotedly, The Personal Letters and Love Story of Jim and Elisabeth Elliot.

But first, get a cup of coffee, sit down, and listen to this one-of-a-kind interview with author and daughter, Valerie Elliot Shepard. Here, with deep emotion, she pours out her heartfelt motivation for writing the book. Every letter has so many profound truths in them that they are precious. They are treasures, unbelievable treasures … My father and mother’s love was huge, deep, because they were so committed to loving God first … I hope to carry on the legacy simply by telling the story.

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While readers of Elisabeth Elliot will recognize some of her familiar teachings, is there something new here that arrests your attention?

Where is there encouragement for today’s couples seeking God’s will in their relationship?