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Nightlight Sheds Daylight on Forgiveness

While others slept, I lay awake. Sweltering temperatures disrupted my nocturnal rest. In the wakefulness, my mind dropped anchor on the phrase forgive your brother from your heart and a thought process began to take shape.

Foundational Principles on Forgiveness

  • Forgiveness is at the core of my salvation.

  • Forgiveness is an intentional act of grace where I extend to another person what God has extended to me.

  • No one ever earns a PHD in forgiveness, yet in the laboratory of life, we each experience ongoing, on-the-job training.

  • Forgiveness requires obedience, is always by faith, and remains essential to mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional health.

  • Forgiveness portrays a posture of humility.

  • “Forgiveness never goes to a deserving person.” (R. Stevens)

  • Concerning forgiveness, after Jesus, a human individual is the primary focus.

Then, led by the Holy Spirit, my thinking climbed upward to a new vista of

What If’s regarding the transaction of forgiveness:

What if we made forgiveness more about God and galvanized our focus on Him?

What if forgiveness became an act of worship and took the form of a love offering to Him?

What if we prayed, “Father, because You are King of my heart—and out of a desperate desire to obey You—I worship you by extending forgiveness.”?

What if?

Just a thought . . .

Living With Eternal Intentionality®

“And this is eternal life, that they may know You the only true God, and Jesus Christ

whom You have sent” (John 17:3).

. . . forgive your brother from your heart (Matthew 18:35b)

With which of the Foundational Principles on Forgiveness do you most identify?

What new personal lesson is God teaching you about forgiveness?

10 Ways to Grab Summer Before It Is Gone

Somehow, there are always more dreams than days when one thinks about summer. As August takes up residence in our lives, what can we do to maximize the moments remaining in the sunshine season of 2023? Here are a few suggestions.

10 Ways to Grab Summer Before It Is Gone:

1. Visit a National Park

2. Read Becoming Mrs. Lewis by Patti Callahan

3. Stroll through a Farmers’ Market

4. Binge-watch all seasons of The Chosen

5. Buy a watermelon and invite your neighbors over to sit outside and enjoy it with you

6. Volunteer at a Vacation Bible School

7. Take a friend and go on an outing to a Pick Your Own Produce for fresh blueberries, blackberries, strawberries, corn, and other vegetables

8. If art speaks your language, visit The Monet Experience near you

9. Go on a picnic

10. This space is for you! What is your best idea to maximize the moments that summer still has to offer?

Living With Eternal Intentionality®

“Now this is eternal life that they may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent” (John 17:3).

Quote: “Give thy heart to God Eternal, since thou art thyself eternal. Join thy heart to what He has given thee to do.” – T. T. Carter

“Make the most of every opportunity” (Ephesians 5:15-16).

Don't Feed the Fret

After a perfectly marvelous 50th anniversary celebration sponsored by our beloved children and their spouses, Larry and I headed home. Somewhere along the seven-hour drive, niggles inside my head started to Velcro to my mind — this deadline, that project, this question, that concern, this ruffle, that bother. And before I knew what was happening, my cup of joy had a crack.

As we traveled alongside 18-wheelers, the Holy Spirit started to navigate the mental mayhem. From Psalm 37:8b, “Do not fret–it only leads to evil,” a new refreshing thought process took shape. Harnessing the Words of David, the Spirit kindly presented a most practical application for me: “Don’t Feed the Fret.”

What? Did I understand correctly?

“Don’t Feed the Fret.”

A matter does not have to cause hand wringing to be considered a fret. You and I sustain our mental diets through the food we offer to our thinking. In fact, overly thinking about a matter or excessively analyzing a situation constitutes fretting.

So, with four simple words, I moved forward to make Don’t Feed the Fret my mental gatekeeper. With each temptation to fret (over-think, over-analyze) the decision to feed the fret or refuse to feed the fret stepped in. By applying this simple but practical instruction, my spiritual equilibrium slowly righted itself.

This tutorial revitalized my thinking. God got it right again!

Living With Eternal Intentionality®

“Now this is eternal life that they may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent” (John 17:3).

What is your insight on Psalm 37:8b, “Do not fret–it only leads to evil.”?

How has the Holy Spirit matured you in your thinking?