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Little Lies We Tell Ourselves

The conversations inside our heads hold a direct connection to the quality of our lives.

A Little Lie becomes a big problem when given ground and allowed to grow.

Little Lies look like this:

It won’t matter if I tell just one person.

Oh, I’ve got plenty of time.

But it’s on sale!

I can sleep a few more minutes.

Just this once won’t hurt.

I assumed he understood.

This weakness will always plague me.

There is no way she will ever find out.

I am too busy to spend time with God.

When Little Lies niggle their way into the soil of our minds, we need a plan. Consider this strategy.

A 4-step plan for Little Lie Accountability

  • Realize that the father of lies, with his of his menacing untruths, specializes in offering all sizes—small, medium, large, and extra large.

  • Recognize the Little Lie inside your head.

  • Reorient your thinking to the Truth.

  • Remember, Jesus Himself fortifies you in this pursuit: “You shall know the truth and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32).

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“And this is eternal life, that they may know You the only true God, and Jesus Christ

whom You have sent” (John 17:3).

“Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards . . .” (Song of solomon 2:15).

Change your thinking and you will change your life.

What little thoughts are actually Little Lies that you are telling yourself?

How can you counter with the truth?

“If you believe a lie, you will live like the lie is true.” - Todd Cook

The Poetry of Septembers

Guest Post by Vivian Hyatt

The Poetry of Septembers

September brings out the poet in me. I can’t help it.

Maybe it’s the blessed lessening of the heat, maybe it’s the slant of the sun. Quite possibly it is because September is my birthday month and I am an adult now and don’t have to go to school. I am sorry for children these days starting school already in August. It’s a shame, I think. Those three months of summer vacation—beginning that last day when I stepped down out of the school bus into my own yard—felt like heaven.

But I was privileged to have my mother at home as well as my Grandma. My siblings—two brothers and a sister, all older than me—were not rushing off to baseball practice or music lessons or band rehearsals. We had our own small society just being at home and with friends on the neighboring farms for occasional visits. But, mostly, we were free to play in the barn and jump into the straw of the hayloft or coddle the kittens or swing on the rope swings my Grandpa hung from two tall pines. And read books. Oh, yes, read to our heart’s content, a whole summer-full.

We had healthy work, too. We weeded in the large garden, shelled peas on the back porch, snapped green beans, shucked the sweet corn for supper. My sister and I did the dishes and often sang together while one of us washed and the other dried. My brothers got up early to milk the cows and again in the evenings, being always attentive to thirsty cats by squirting milk straight from the cows’ teats into their yowling mouths. Sometimes, that backfired, and the cow would kick a hind leg, upsetting cat, bucket, and all.

But—I am straying. Such summers, maybe, were a kind of poetry in themselves. The freedom we had—within limits, like a poem—the color and texture of the sun-filled days or of the white billowing clouds or the sudden storms and lashing of the trees. Bare feet in green grass. The constant cackle of chickens in the background. A subconscious sense of well-being in an ordered home.

I come by the poetic tendency honestly. My dad, Grandpa, and aunt were poets. My Grandpa even self-published a slim volume, a copy of which I came across in a small shop decades after he had passed. The shop owner remembered him as a fine, upstanding man.

A year’s September ago, riding in a car along winding country roads in Germany, I jotted down what I was seeing out the window and wrote it up as a poem in German for our friend’s September birthday. It is simple, unpretentious. It doesn’t need interpreting or philosophizing, rather—"These things, these things were here and but the beholder wanting…” 1

Since I may not assume my readers know German, I translated my own poem into English, not as poetic, but most poetry is not translatable quite as the poet had in mind.

I may yet change a word or two, but for now, here is how it stands:

Out the Car Window: From Weissig to Freiberg

Cows pose on

sunny hillsides just waiting for

the artist

with country sensibilities and

a paintbrush

to hand.

Fields newly shorn and

golden with leftover summer

show themselves to

advantage

still useful

for

admiring.

Sunflowers nod

over stonewalls or along pasture lanes

performing their art

as if arranged by a charmed

and casual

eye.

Distant dark of green forests

rise against a cerulean

skyscape, where clouds

seem placed

just

exactly

so.

Red-tiled village rooftops

cluster in valleys as

church spires

lift the gaze

for

worship.


“Behold, to the Lord

your God

belong

heaven and the heaven

of heavens

and the earth

with all that is

in it.” 2

God, the master poet, created for our pleasure what we know as September.

1 Gerard Manley Hopkins, “Hurrahing in Harvest” (Here is masterful poetry from a master poet, my favorite. Well worth several readings.)

2 Deuteronomy 10:14


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“And this is eternal life, that they may know You the only true God, and Jesus Christ

whom You have sent” (John 17:3).

What do you learn about God from the last line of this beautiful piece of poetic expression? God, the master poet, created for our pleasure what we know as September.

How does Deuteronomy 10:14 further expand your vision of Him? “Behold, to the Lord your God belong heaven and the heaven of heavens and the earth with all that is in it.”

What aspect of Vivian’s poem gives you pause to praise God for His gift of seasons, especially for September?

Meet Vivian. Vivian Hyatt says of herself, “After leaving Ohio for four years of college in Indiana, I then joined the organization Cru, working with students, which became my lifetime career along with my husband. We ended up spending the bulk of our lives—thirty-nine years—in England, Austria, Germany, and Hungary. I have come back full-circle to Ohio where we live in a 200-year-old house in what was Shawnee territory. We have five (wonderful) adult children and two (wonderful) in-law children, and five (also wonderful) grandchildren.”

For more of Vivian’s writings, visit her website VivianHyatt.com Swings of Contentment




Best Advice I Ever Received

(Well . . . at least some of the Best Advice I Ever Received.)

A library of advice rises up in the stacks of my brain. Collected over more than seven decades, these treasures represent lives of individuals who made contributions to my growth and maturity. Some nuggets came from The Holy Spirit which He invested in the fabric of my being. Others came from fellow pilgrims. From the bits below, may there be a gem shining just for you.

Bible: The Bible is not just a good suggestion.

Community: Be a part of a group.

Disappointment: Disappointment is inevitable; discouragement is a choice. (C. Stanley)

Facts: Nothing has meaning without a context. (B. Biehl)

Friendships: Treasures that exponentially increase in value over the course of a lifetime.

Hospitality: Keep a meal in the freezer which can be pulled out at a moment’s notice and shared with unexpected guests.

Gratitude: Send your mother flowers on your birthday.

Growth: Realize that the single greatest factor to determine my ongoing maturity is me. (J. Henderson)

Holy Spirit: The Holy Spirit is The Secret to living the abundant Christian life.

Home: Flowers bring joy to any room.

Kitchen: A cup of coffee in the morning and a cup of tea in the afternoon help solve a host of dilemmas.

Marriage: Keep short accounts; never go to bed with unresolved conflict.

Mindset: Control is a myth. (B. Lawrence)

Mother: Be quick to say to your child, “I am sorry; I was wrong.”

Overachiever Mom: Less is enough.

Parenting: If you want them to talk to you as teenagers, talk to them as toddlers. Be there!

Perspective: 90% of life is attitude, the other 10% is perspective. (L. Thompson)

Prayer: Always obey the impulse to pray. (D. Horsey)

Philosophy of Life: Say yes whenever you can.

Priorities: My #1 priority for everyday is to spend time with Jesus.

Project Development: GEMO; good enough, move on.

Submission: “Thy will be done.”- the prayer that always gets answered.

Traveling: Pack two days ahead of time to avoid forgetting important items.

Turning Down a Request: No is a complete sentence.

Unwanted Realities: In acceptance lies peace. (E. Elliot)

Vacation: Allow each part to inspire you: 1) planning 2) participating 3) reflecting.

My Bottom Line, Best Line, Last Line: Nothing is worth anything unless everything is given to God.

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“And this is eternal life, that they may know You the only true God, and Jesus Christ

whom You have sent” (John 17:3).

“A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver” (Proverbs 25:11).

Why do you think the advice of fellow cojourners is of such great value?

Which thought from the list above meets you where you are today?

What is a piece of advice that has been particulartly helpful to you? Who offered it and how did God use this to make a difference?