How to Ruin Your Summer in 3 Easy Steps

If summer can be ruined in 3 easy steps, what might those steps be?

1. Grumble about the weather.

2. Complain about the crowds.

3. Blame others for any inconvenience.

In a moment’s notice, the joy of anticipation goes out the window, and in its place a sour pall descends. Am I right?

But just as ruinous as that list is, you and I possess the awesome opportunity to get rid of the grrrr. Instead of being dissatisfied, discontented, or disgruntled, we hold the moment to turn the tide for ourselves and for those around us. Listen closely, while I whisper The Secret:

Do not give others power of attorney over your outlook, your attitude, or your demeanor. Instead, give Power of Attorney over your spirit to the Holy Spirit. He, and He alone, is the true Power Source for an enjoyable day and an enjoyable summer.

Therefore,

• in your car

• in the line

• in the crowd

• on the beach

• on the bus

• at the pool

• or at the fair

… make your outing memorable for the right (not ruinous) reasons.

In spite of, instead of, because of, in the midst of, even though, even when—allow God to use you as His game changer. Be ever mindful, this is not about perfection but rather about growth, growth in being a blessing.

May every place and company we are in be benefitted by us. -Valley of Vision

Living With Eternal Intentionality®

Godliness with contentment is great gain (1 Timothy 6:6).

In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus (1 Thessalonians 5:18 NASB).

Which of The 3 Easy Steps most threatens to undo your summer outings? (grumble, complain, or blame)

What if, before your next outing, you get alone with God and commit the upcoming situation to Him? Ask that He enable you to release Power of Attorney over your spirit to the Holy Spirit, moment by moment.

Please come back to this conversation later and tell us if/how He made a difference.

Mom, Blueberry Pie, 4th of July

“Debby, this pie is MARVELOUS!!! Are you willing to share the recipe?”

That request brought a smile and the aha to share this recipe, not only with my friend and her recovering-from-surgery-husband, but also with you. After all, with just a minor adjustment,

Mom, Apple Pie, 4th of July

easily becomes

Mom, Blueberry Pie, 4th of July

Miss•Lou Blueberry Pie

Ingredients:

1 cup sour cream

2 tablespoons flour

¾ cup sugar

1 teaspoon vanilla

¼ teaspoon salt

1 egg, slightly beaten

2 ½ cups fresh or frozen blueberries

Topping:

3 tablespoons flour

3 tablespoons butter, cut in pieces

3 tablespoons pecans, chopped

1 9-inch pie shell, unbaked

Instructions:

Combine the first 6 ingredients. Beat 5 minutes or until smooth. Fold in blueberries. Pour into pie shell and bake at 400° for 25 minutes. Combine topping ingredients and sprinkle over top of pie. Bake 10 minutes more.

And, may all of your guests also declare, “This pie is MARVELOUS!!! Are you willing to share the recipe?”

*Recipe originally from Miss•Lou Blueberry Growers Association

Living With Eternal Intentionality®

Would you please pray for me when you make this recipe?

And, if you offer the pie on your 4th of July buffet, would you please pray our country?

Mom’s Guide for Camp-Ready Kids

C-A-M-P

Out of school often means going to camp, and quite likely, this single word fits powerfully into your child’s summer vocabulary. And, the word swarms all around the rest of us, too. Why, just the other day while sitting at a traffic light—even before the light changed—the nearby digital advertisement urged me to register for upcoming Magic Camp and T ball Camp!

Truly, the options abound. The 2019 Summer Camp Buffet includes:

Church Camp

Day Camp

Sports Camp

Art Camp

Science Camp

Band Camp

Dance Camp

Cheerleader Camp

Space Camp

Acting Camp

Family Camp

Scout Camp

Special Needs Camp

YMCA Camp

And the list goes on. And on. And on.

But here are several realities:

• Hold on for the big A-HA: camp is not just a rite of passage for the camper. Camp exists for the family as a whole. This away experience offers a tiny foray toward the ultimate day the child leaves the nest. (I know, ouch.) Nonetheless, for a defined period in the current calendar, the family undergoes a calculated, healthy change.

• Camping is not for everyone, and not for everyone for every summer. Wisdom must lead the way, and guide parents in how to incorporate camp into the life formation of each individual child.

• Creativity comes alive when struggling budgets can’t manage the classic weeklong variety. In such cases, even a neighborhood camp where a small group gathers and sets up encampment night by night in each other’s yards, genuinely builds memories to last a lifetime. So, stare down the obstacles, pitch the tent, pull out the s’mores, grab the guitar (and the insect repellent) and create your own customized adventure!

And, when your young person’s summer does include an away opportunity, here is your go-to list for preparation:

Mom’s Guide for Camp-Ready Kids

1. Pack like a pro. See illustration and explanation below.

Pack individual camp outfits, including socks and underwear, in separate ziplocs. Then, roll the ziplocs and fit them all into one large 2-gallon ziploc labeled ‘outfits’. Boom!

2. Include self-addressed, stamped envelopes in hopes your camper will write to you. Save them. These are treasures. Also, send self-addressed, stamped envelopes for your child to offer new friends to encourage contact once camp is over.

3. Fold in mini surprises for your dear one to open each day he or she is away; this gives something to look forward to and reminds them of your love.

4. Have a ‘What to do if I get homesick’ conversation. And, remind them to talk to Jesus when someone hurts their feelings. He always understands.

5. Send Dial soap; it will clean those scrapes and cuts like nothing else, thus helping to prevent a nasty infection.

6. Treat yourself to rare mom opportunities during this sacred space camp creates for you. Plan a date night with your camper’s dad, have coffee with a dear friend, read a refreshing book, visit a museum (and take your time studying the treasures) or go on an outdoor adventure.

7. Definitely prepare your schedule to provide focused attention to hear their stories when they return.

Before you know it, your camper will come bouncing back, exhausted, dirty, and begging to sign up for next year’s session. And truthfully, all too soon, they will be walking out the door and not just to camp. So for summer 2019, savor the memories; yes, savor the memories.

Speaking of memories …

As you read this, Larry and I will be in the throes of Cousins’ Camp for our grandchildren, where he and I serve as full-on camp directors! Our activities include a water park, an amusement park, a bike ride, a visit to a pottery studio, and badminton and soccer in the backyard. Oh my.

Living With Eternal Intentionality®

“For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. To Him be the glory forever” (Romans 11:36 NASB).

Looking back, what were your camp experiences growing up?

How did God use these opportunities in your personal development?

Were you only a camper or did you later participate as a counselor?

How can you, encourage a camper in your life this summer, whether it is a child, a grandchild, a nephew, or a neighbor?

Be sure to contribute your thoughts by leaving a comment.

[Photos by Coleman Kavgian]